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Originally Posted by resurgam
maybe she made that comment because she felt awkward . sometimes in a weird situation people say stupid things. not meaning to but because they slip out of our mouths before the mind engages.
I've had people ghost me...it's their issue not mine. hurts for a bit but then i figure it's their loss. again, not mine. if they don't have the backbone to at least say what is bothering them and want to work it out, well then really, it isn't worth the friendship. some i have sent notes to, some not.
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Thank you Resurgam! Your points are very well made and I agree. Yes, she may not have intended the recent comments to hurt me. I believe most people have good intentions and of course we all make mistakes. Including me. It may be a cliche but I try very hard to take a '
live and let live' approach to others. I've never found such an approach to be regrettable.
Thank you for taking the time to write and support. I am very lonely and depressed these days and I appreciate you reaching out
Wishing you a wonderful day!