No mate, don’t think like that. I am very sorry I am very sorry if I misled in any comment. Successful can mean you are learning , you are enjoying sunshine, you met a nice person. My case is just I may be too dramatic, but is just Japan treatment to foreigners is horrible, I can’t see my children’s after divorce and see pictures of them ( I am using lawyers but they are not as effective) , my sister is sick with schizophrenia and my mom is 73 years old back home (Venezuela) and I am sending money back. ( I wish U.S already intervened) and now I’m hospitalized due to all this stress. But I am trying to have happy thoughts so I don’t break. I know you guys are lovely group of people and you can achieve what you want even if we have our limitations.