What about what are we looking to give in reading other people's postings?

I am looking to give support, and in some cases, suggestions.

No matter how gentle I word things, sometimes, this is not well received.

What I am noticing in both Online and off-line world is that people who are open to external feedbacks are usually already self-aware that they admit to their own mistakes before anyone even mentions it.

So they are naturally open to different angles of perspectives.