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I used to be terrified to even talk about how and who abused me. I first blogged about overcoming my fears I think in October 2012. It took me almost 7 full years of almost daily working on those fears to completely accept how they controlled my life to get free of them. My hypervigilence was like a noose around my neck.
For me, my mother and sisters taught me to be bullied, to bully plus to feel the controlling emotions like shame, humiliation, and so forth. Once I faced my emotions caught up in their lies and accepted them, my thinking began to straighten out and I felt less shame and humiliation.
I went to AA meetings for a while. I can't remember going through all 12 steps. One on one therapy helped me more than the aa meetings did. There were too many triggers in the meetings, plus I never knew who I was sitting next too. I never really felt safe there.
Did you do a 12 step program?
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Grateful Sobriety Fangirl Since 11-16-2007
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