eenie I understand how difficult flying monkeys can be. I went through this and ended up cutting out some people and those I remained in contact with became distant as I could not trust them not to relay my information back to the abuser.

Worst of all, the outside world perceives us as the problem for protecting ourselves.

Even the death of an abuser doesn't make us well. They already did their damage.

I still feel the flying monkeys are untrustworthy people. They have a mindset that is not true.

There is one flying monkey, I would like to have a frank, open and assertive conversation with. I hold back because I don't want to cause the flying monkey (who was brainwashed and is normally kind) any pain or suffering.

Sending you fortitude to deal with flying monkeys.