I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Stuck1nhead! I COMPLETELY AGREE with what all the other wise and wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! Definitely try to talk to your wife about ALL OF THIS and see how it goes from there! Hopefully she'll listen to what you have to say and understand what you mean! Just be honest and ask her if there's anything wrong! Hopefully she'll be honest as well and tell you the truth! You can always go to couple counselling if it's necessary! There ARE options and it'd be a shame if your sexual activity already stopped at the beginning of your marriage! I hope you'll be able to talk thhing throughout with her and to solve things with her! Sending many AWESOME, kind, safe, sweet, warm, wise and WONDERFUL HUGS TO BOTH OF YOU, STUCK1NHEAD, JUST LIKE YOU BOTH ARE! PLEASE BELIEVE THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE IT IS TRUE AND YOU BOTH KNOW THAT AS WELL EVEN IF IT'S DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOU! PLEASE BELIEVE THAT AND REMEMBER THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN!