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Old Jun 03, 2019, 04:53 AM
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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn View Post
Very inspiring, echos. I am so glad for you that you were both able to withstand the 'heat' so to speak. I couldn't do it with L when we got to that place and I basically ran. Based on what L said if both t and client can withstand it or whatever that is when real transformation occurs. I feel a little sad that I ran.
It's okay Artie. I fluctuate between either ET or paternal transference and my first instinct is to cancel our next session, when R gets too close. Both bring up huge amounts of shame for me, but i'm not where I was when I first started and neither are you.I believe everything has a time and a place. When you're ready to go back you will.
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