My therapist has said that the biggest challenge in my life is to reach out and develop social relationships. Or something like that.

I pointed out that this didn't sound nearly as appealing to me as it sounded to him, although I had recently found a group of people I enjoyed getting to know.

He said "I know", in that smiling and compassionate way he has.

Then we let it drop.

I don't think it matters much what he'd like for me. It's interesting, since it shows me what he's thinking. But he's not going to push me into it.