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Old Mar 22, 2008, 10:46 AM
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I think the obvious could be harder to see because we spent so much time in our childhood dealing with subtleties. My stepmother was only obvious about what she wanted, didn't want to hear my "opinion" when it disagreed with hers. So my obvious wasn't expressed, I didn't get practice and slowly learned to see things only her way.
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