IME people that overshare right away need something. Maybe its a friend, or a listener or someone to abuse, who knows? I look at my time as being in a bank. When I make a withdrawal from my time bank I want to spend it wisely. This does not include listening to someone I barely know or a coworker I am not close with go on about their issues. When this has happened I have definitely pulled back from being anything more than polite with someone.
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