I am curious about our two responses to this now. One does seem happy, I can see why someone thought that reading over it. The other does not.
Oh well. I honestly don't know how to figure out my own responses to things sometimes!

Here's my best guess.... not caring about it made it Not A Problem. It was actually a huge problem - life really can't be lived properly if you don't have control over your own being. But we just didn't have control over that. Maybe not thinking about it at all was a way to try to cope with the lack of control?

But it was a huge problem and caused us failure in every aspect of life.

ETA, which leads to another problem which causes us a loss of relationships... that we are so often accused of lying. One alter will say one thing and another alter will tell the same person something completely different. People frequently believe we are lying. I don't mean about DID or abuse stuff, we don't really talk about things like that with anyone except T. But I mean boring, mundane every day life stuff that no-one would even bother to lie about anyway. That kind of stuff bothers me much more than not-thinking about missing time!