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I have never gone through this and I am so sorry you are. I have been married for almost 24 years now and I too would be devastated if I were in your place. I tend to agree with what you have heard from others about emotional affairs. I feel they are so much more violating because of how vunerable all parties involved are, you included. I am not dismissing sex but it only goes so far in a relationship and its that bond of trust that is the glue to hold people together. All the plotting and planning to meet her, waiting for you to leave for work and messaging involves tons of dishonesty and lying and its not easy to recover from. Was everything fine before this? Do you think this is his only time of doing this?
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