So I'm still raging as no matter what I do (talk, give space, wait to be contacted) I can't do anything right. My friend was pregnant and was due 22nd May. I messaged a mutual friend as I didnt want to annoy my pregnant friend she will have enough to think about. I contacted the mutual friend on 30th and she read message but didnt respond. Then on the 3rd June I saw my friend in town with a baby. I was raging so I didnt talk to her and have been stewing nicely here. I spoke to my worker who said contact her. So i did. She gave birth on 27th May. I'm not being funny but surely our mutual friend who knows could of told me on behalf of our friend. Its made me realise I'm not a friend but an acquaintance to them both. I have no friends left grrr!