Last night, when I brought up to my wife that I'd been wanting to create a play space and what not. She was all for it ... setting up a corner in a room. The problem is, is we can't play in front of others and feel comfortable, relaxed, safe. When I did get to being able to say that I'd like a separate space, she was ok with it. It still took a lot for me to speak up. We have to remodel the house to get this space so it's not something coming soon.