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Originally Posted by Lrad123
Thanks. My husband and I have been seeing a marriage counselor every other week for a short period of time (maybe 4 sessions total) and I like her and trust her. I was thinking of emailing her and asking if she’d meet with me about this, but I’m not sure if that’s a conflict of interest or whatever since she already meets with my husband and me as a couple. I’d just want to meet one or two times though like you said to get an outside perspective on my therapy. It gets confusing trying to figure it all out myself and I already have some trust in this woman so she’d be a comfortable choice for me. How did you find your person?
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Hm, you could ask? But be prepared for her to say it's a conflict of interest. Maybe ask her for a suggestion of someone to talk to? Honestly, I got the name of the person I ended up seeing from ex-MC, when I emailed him while struggling with T (maybe 6 months earlier) asking if he knew any T's who were good with attachment issues. But I also emailed a couple I found on Psychology Today who seemed promising (a couple got back to me, but I went with this one because she had immediate availability). So, if the marriage counselor says no, maybe just try emailing a couple? Or see if she has suggestions.