I am sorry to hear it. I don’t have experience with being cheated on but I know people who cheated and were cheated on. Personally I’d never be able to trust the person again so for me affair would be the absolute end of marriage. No second chances. I also recommend to check for STD.

Many people who supposedly have just emotional affairs turn out to also sleep around. I’ve met a lady who works with HIV advocacy who contracted HIV from her husband.

Please be safe. No husband on this planet is worth jeopardizing your health and safety.