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Oh eve that really sucks. I wont tell you to automatically leave him- I am not you and I do not know what you are feeling. If my husband acted like that to me, I cant say I would immediately leave him either. In some ways I admire you for not bailing right away. I believe marriage vows, whether they are religious or not are important. I do not think you are stupid for wanting it to work or trying to make it work. I can say this though: I believe that in order to make anything work you need to work on eve. She needs to figure out how she wants to act and be in order to have harmony. She needs to work out her feelings in order to assess them with her husband. Now, that very well may mean marriage counseling and only you can decide if his refusal is acceptable.
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