Thank you all. I do have a therapist who is helping me work through this. I will not go see a marriage counselor by myself. A relationship takes the work of two people. I will not shoulder that burden by myself. If at some point it comes down to me saying we really need a couples therapist and he then says it’s over, then he’s clearly not willing to look at himself or work on himself and it is over in that case. We just got married anyways so we’re not at the point where I feel a couples counselor should be involved.

I just got to work so I need to be brief. I will write more later.. I really appreciate all your replies and support around this. Hugs.