I am very sorry for anyone who has experienced this challenge. I have been stuck in a horrible situation with my older sister and her obsessive need to have all the control over both my parents. My sister CONSTANTLY gaslighted and it was horrible. This article definitely nails it, it was all about her need for control. She doesn't even care that she gaslights and lies either.

7 Ways to Extinguish Gaslighting

Just looking at this article once again reminds me of all the things she did and it was aways about her constant need for control.

Both my parents have just passed this year, a part of me feels relief because it was just so toxic right down to their last breaths.

Anytime I questioned her "story" she would literally blow up at me and hang up on me. The ONLY pov that mattered was hers, any question or different POV, she would blow up in anger. It's left me with some challenging triggers.