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sarahsweets · Jun 07, 2019 at 03:21 AM

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Originally Posted by PurpleRutabega

If he died, we could move on with our lives.... the kids & I could remember the good & forget the bad. It would simplify so much....

That's not at all the same as me wishing him dead, mind you. It's just admitting that yeah, it would be a lot SIMPLER than the coming months & years are going to be. (Not to mention, things would be simpler financially, as well.)

I get this. And I do not think you are bad for thinking this. I felt the same about my father. He did die when I was 24 and it was horrible because he was 47 but now looking back I cant imagine having to deal with him in my life the way it is now. So I just wanted to validate that its ok to feel that way and I get it.