I'm so sorry you and your husband have to put up with such TERRIBLE behavior, Foo Fighter! I COMPLETELY AGREE with you that your husband did the right thing by calling her up on her behavior! As for what to do from here, I COMPLETELY AGREE with what unaluna and sarahsweets have already wisely said better than I ever could! DEFINITELY set up boundaries with her! You have EVERY RIGHT to be respected and to NOT be treated like this! Hopefully your father in law will understand this and will side with you and your husband! Keep us updated on your situation, ok? YOU DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED! You're certainly LOVED AND RESPECTED HERE! THAT'S A PROMISE! I hope things will get better soon for you one way or another! Please stay safe and take GREAT care of yourself! WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK TO BOTH YOU AND YORU HUSBAND! Sending many AWESOME, kind, safe, sweet, warm, wise and WONDERFUL HUGS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND, FOO FIGHTER, JUST LIKE YOU BOTH ARE! I HOPE YOU'LL BOTH BELIEVE THAT! THAT'S TRUE! THAT'S ABSOLUTELY TRUE!