Thank you divine and sarahsweets for your posts in my thread. You both understand exactly who this asshole is. He totally blame shifted by telling me "you don't have to like me/be friends with me," as if to put HIS bad choice of no-showing and being inconsiderate on my shoulders, as though it was my fault, which it isn't. I don't stand people up and I always communicate with them b/c I respect other people's time.