Oh, that's difficult. A percentage of people have little or no difficulty "getting over" bullies relatively quickly, but my impression of your history - particularly early history - tends to make me believe you necessarily have developed a keen awareness of bullies and similar individuals. "Overcoming" a deeply rooted personal survival mechanism is no easy undertaking.
I "enjoy" the blessing and curse of a global depressive apathy and emotional blunting that rarely departs me. Though not "indifferent" to bullies, the anger they rouse in me usually stays in my "cold" mind without spilling over into my emotions.

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