I think it is okay for us to feel how we feel when we are bullied. It is true and real.
I guess we have to manage our emotions to our best advantage. I try to accept that bullies have their own agenda. We don't have to accept it. We can assert ourselves but I am not good at that. Venting helps....
It shows how strong we are to manage them after all we have endured.
I am not indifferent to bullies
My best wishes to you, much respect and kindness