I try to talk to them and they try to talk to me; we (me and my parts) have been working on how to "hear" each other. So far, it's like they are unable to connect to each other, so there's not been any calming down of things. We are starting to feel like there's less judgement towards the younger parts and more trust towards the older parts. I'm not sure what's really happening, because it's all weird and hard to explain.