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Originally Posted by golden_eve
No. I made it a condition of marriage. He did not blow up at me again until literally just days before we were due to leave for the honeymoon and wedding. I could not bare with a breakup at that moment in time and went through with it, knowing it was maybe a mistake.
And now I've reminded him of that condition. I know I will have to follow through on boundaries. IF he behaves like he did the other night even one more time, I am going to be forced to leave him. The reason being, it will be clear as day to me that it is impossible to work with him and it is an impossible relationship for me.
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I’m very sorry this is happening. I’ve been hoping that the two of you are going to be able to relax after all the stress of a new marriage settles down... and talk through your issues. Maybe it’s much more than that but I’ve been hoping that it’s not. I know that marriage is very hard. Even good stress brought about by positive life changes can actually cause all kinds of problems. I sincerely hope things get better. [emoji3590]