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Originally Posted by Sisabel
I’m very sorry this is happening. I’ve been hoping that the two of you are going to be able to relax after all the stress of a new marriage settles down... and talk through your issues. Maybe it’s much more than that but I’ve been hoping that it’s not. I know that marriage is very hard. Even good stress brought about by positive life changes can actually cause all kinds of problems. I sincerely hope things get better. [emoji3590]
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I don’t think marriage has to be very hard. It could be. But doesn’t have to. What I observe is that marriage is usually hard when people aren’t a very good match. Could be also hard when major unexpected tragedy occurs like death, serious illness etc that’s understandable. I absolutely don’t believe and don’t observe marriage being hard under normal circumstances.
Why should it be hard? Why get married then? To have a hard life?