I guess I didn't use the right word.I didn't mean accepting as in being ok with someone.Maybe the right word should have been expecting?IDK.But what I meant was like everyone seems to have that certain creepy uncle,we accept(exoect?) that he's just creepy, it's how he's always been since we've known him.We don't like the fact that he is but that's just who/,how he is.Or the person that's always perky no matter what,we see that as who/how they are,etc.

I do understand not being accepted in the way you mean though.And I know how that feels because that's how it was for me too.