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Jun 08, 2019, 11:21 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Tonight he told me he would be lost without me. I told him he needs to follow through now with what he says. He says he's learning. Learning new ways of being, is what he meant. Now I'll see if he can follow through and stay true to his word.
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It's good that he sees he needs to change his behavior. I think someone else mentioned it's a process, so you'll have to work with him, give him a chance to get himself under control. Maybe he needs an outlet, like you have PC, to voice the things that are bothering him before he vents it all at you?
Like calming down before you two talk about something, maybe he does something to let himself have his anger first, so that it's not directed at you, and then he can calmly talk to you about it? It's okay for him to feel anger, he just has to process it properly and not blow it all at you and expect you to deal with it for him,
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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