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Old Jun 09, 2019, 03:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Elio View Post
Yes, my T would love to do dream work; however, I am uncomfortable with it most the time.
Have you thought about why it is uncomfortable to you?

For me, I suppose there are many reasons I don't want to share dreams. One is that I actually don't want to share anything at all Because I think that my T might get some pleasure out from me sharing stuff and I don't think he has deserved any pleasure - I already pay him quite a lot, right.

So I suppose I feel that working with me should be hard and difficult work for him without any pleasure component and I try to do all I can to maintain it this way That includes not giving him dreams to work with because I know he likes it.

But my point was that such dreams as I described are already kind of end products. There's no need to bring them to the therapy at all because their message is loud and clear - they demonstrate me how to feel certain feelings I haven't been able to feel yet in waking life. I think that's different from dreams that might be useful for dream work.
Thanks for this!
thesnowqueen