Yes, those are terrible experiences, I have never felt pressured but if I did I just wouldn't respond. I have considered cancelling my FB (the last time I looked, I recall they make it a bit hard to do) and this is not my first account here. Theoretically, you could cancel it all and start all over again in order to try to get it right? However, I notice that under my new usename, I make some of the same mistakes (I have to guard against sharing TMI)--but not all of them. Also, as someone who has been here before, I do have some impressions about some of the people here rather than going into it as blindly as before.

The online world still seems strange to me sometimes. It seems strange how that we get "programmed" to check in on it. There is work I should be doing instead. I also worry about how it effects young people. I am from the age of Pong and Atari and spent my entire youth outside.