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Old Jun 09, 2019, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Oops, I misunderstood the question and answered how I deal when in a situation outside of therapy. In therapy, if I start crying, I can’t speak. I don’t have DID. I don’t get very far with therapists, as I just feel embarrassed and not understood. So I don’t go back. Why pay them to listen to me cry? Plus, they always seem to say something that hurts me deeper and really gets under my skin, insulting me.

I’m sorry the link still didn’t open for me. But, I still think you have nothing to lose in trying something that may help.

Webinar 4 Info – Therapists – DNMS Institute, LLC

copy and paste....maybe that will work.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.