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Originally Posted by Becleyhicks
I kinda knew through my cousin and best friend this guy so felt safe to have sex wothout condom and spent the night with him first night we met so grandmother knew we had sex because didn't come home (I live with her)and didn't wanna lie and say we didn't and Wayne the guy said we had sex.my grandmother had to buy pregnancy test as was between jobs.
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I understand. And I wasn't saying that it was wrong for you to tell your grandmother....but it opens you up to more judgment when you share really private information with others....particularly family members. She does not actually have a right to know when/if you have sex whether you live with her or not. That's a boundary issue.
Knowing someone through your cousin doesn't mean that he is without STDs. You may want to ask a doctor about that, you cannot screen by looking at a person. And he should not be sharing information about sex with other people. That is a violation of trust.
Are you a minor? Under 18?