My S.O. is terminally ill and has some dementia, so taking him is a non-starter. Otherwise I would. I don't have a T. I spent years seeing Ts. It got repetitive. My pdoc has only seen me twice. That was so I could get some Ritalin. I haven't been on that for months.
I don't care about labels. I just wish I could be less of a mess. Years ago pdocs said to me things like "I don't have a magic formula to solve your problems." This pdoc told me to get aerobic exercise. I'm sure that's a good suggestion, but I don't think the pdoc realizes how messed up I am.