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With my second T the intellectual part was a much better match and we never had any conflicts really. What I experienced with the first T was definitely not a meaningful pattern of mine although I do sometimes run into similar with people who have similar personalities to him, I know it is not a compatible pairing and I understand why, so not much usefulness in dissecting further.
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You don't think that engaging in intellectual conversations is a pattern of yours and that your second T was engaging in your usual pattern? You've talked about this a lot here, so I can see why your T saw elements of paternal transference arise in the therapy.