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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
When ex-T (female like me) eventually allowed occasional hugs (after like 4 years), they were generally warm, though just top half of body touching. She hugged me pretty tightly a few times, like after ex-MC's wife died, and I was very upset about it. I've never hugged ex-MC or current T (both male) and feel it might be weird if I did (especially due to some off and on transference). Both shook/shake hands at the end of session though, and they're very warm handshakes, if that makes sense. Like T's hands are always literally very warm, and it feels more like a hand squeeze than a shake at times.
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I started hugging mine (i am female and he is male) at a few months in and it’s gotten intense and intimate/full body really fast, I find it really powerful in that I can’t wait to go to session because I will get a hug and makes me feel more attached to him. 4 years is a long time! She was really cautious I guess