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Old Jun 09, 2019, 03:12 PM
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My gut feeling is that something is happening because of the distance. Anxiety, need... lack of routine unsettling you inside. Then you jump into attack and she jumps into defence. I don't know that - just a possibility to consider. I've had logistical problems with therapists too, and they always led me into conflict. It's more stressful to manage everything!
I don't think it is attacking to say in a session that you don't think a particular subject is THAT important. I also don't think it's attacking to say you feel criticised or that the T's word choice seems inherently critical...
Thanks for this!
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