There are sex therapists who specialize in sexuality and sexual-emotional health. Perhaps you would benefit from speaking to one? They are bound by confidentiality laws...so provided you feel that the therapist is kind and respectful (some are, some are not) you could lay out your sexual concerns for them and get some help to think it through.

I don't know if you are seeking approval of your sexual choices from PC folks? I am not judging you at all. The # of men you had sex with does not matter to me. What matters is whether you are okay with this or not? On a basic level, are you comfortable in your own skin?