I try to be as open as possible which is really hard. If your being abused you have to find a new support team. There are therapist that just aren't trained for complex issues. I'm still looking for my therapist that semi-fits (3+ years). Now the T's I've have helped track my mood swings and noted things for my pdoc but actually help very little but I only see them every 3 weeks or so. Anyway try to say everything. Try to get into a therapist that shares notes with your pdoc.