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Originally Posted by blackocean
I started hugging mine (i am female and he is male) at a few months in and it’s gotten intense and intimate/full body really fast, I find it really powerful in that I can’t wait to go to session because I will get a hug and makes me feel more attached to him. 4 years is a long time! She was really cautious I guess
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At first I had assumed she just didn't hug clients. I mentioned it offhandedly once, and she said she did hug some. Took me a few weeks to ask why she didn't hug me. She said because I had some maternal transference. Which...felt like I was being punished for having that, in a way. Then at one point, she just started touching me gently on the arm or shoulder when I left, then a few months later offered a hug when I'd had a difficult session.
Does it feel *too* intense with your T? Just curious.