I'm a bit strange in that I don't invite people if I don't want to...even when others expect or suggest that I should. If I don't like being in someone's company, I don't bother unless I have to work with them for example. While I understand the concept of "all are invited" that's not my way. My stuff is invite-only. Similarly, if people I know don't invite me to something I don't think too long or hard about it. No harm, no foul. I received a fake, very late invite to a wedding once. I didn't go. I was judged for that by several in my circle but I didn't care. If you want me at your wedding, have the good manners to invite me when you send out initial invites...not to replace someone who bailed. I thought that was rude but I was deemed rude for declining. Ah well