That seems REALLY scary, Jp31! I'm so sorry you've had to go through that! I completely agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! I won't tell you what you need to do as that is on you to decide, but PLEASE do consider the consequences if you decide to stay with him. If you DO decide to stay with him, at the very least you will make that decision by carefully considering EVERY option at least! PLEASE STAY SAFE! We're here for you if you need ANY advice and support! THAT'S A PROMISE! WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK WITH YOUR DECISION AND YOUR LIFE! Sending many AWESOME, kind, safe, sweet, warm and WONDERFUL HUGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, JP31, JUST LIKE THE WAY YOU ARE!