It's WONDERFUL that you feel empathy for what your husband is going through, vesseloflove, but it's important NOT to let that empathy overwhelm you! Definitely try to distance yourself a little bit! Remember to take care of yourself! Do something nice like going out with your friends, focusing on your hobbies and having as much fun as you can without neglecting your duties and your husband of course! That way you'll be able to BETTER support your husband in what he's going through and hopefully he'll appreciate that! It is important to take care of ourselves and not only of other people! That way you'll be able to provide THE BEST SUPPORT in my humble opinion! Keep that in mind! Let us know if you and your husband need advice and support and if you're making ANY progress together! WE'LL BE HERE FOR YOU! THAT'S A PROMISE! WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK TO BOTH YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND IN YOUR LIVES! Sending many AWESOME, kind, safe, sweet, warm, wise and WONDERFUL HUGS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND, VESSELOFLOVE, JUST LIKE THE WAY YOU BOTH ARE!