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Originally Posted by WishfulThinker66
I suggest behaving in a way that does not play into other people's reactions or behaviours - whether the source of their own reactions is based on your own regardless of your interpretation of them.
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This doesn't even parse into a concept I understand.
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So, just go out on the assumption then that positive behaviour will result in positive reactions
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I absolutely
cannot act according to anything except pre-established fact. To do anything else is a
moral crime. Anything that is not already proven true must be considered
false until it is proven true. If I act according to the false
I become the very monster I am accused of being. Acting according to the false justifies every act of abuse I have received.
My bullies act on false information. If I also act according to false information, I become no better than them.
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don't give others the opportunity to respond in a negative manner to you.
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People don't need me to "give them the opportunity" - that opportunity
always exists and has no connection to me.
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Besides, how difficult would it be to be positive in the first place.
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Again, acting according to the false is a
moral crime. There is literally no punishment too severe for those who commit such a crime.
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I am quite sure if you chose to be positive regardless of the behaviour of those around you theirs will shift accordingly.
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I have done this before, and they absolutely did not shift. That is precisely why it is now proven
false, and I can no longer act in that manner.
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Just don't even give them the room or opportunity to think negatively about you.
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I cannot control or even
influence their thoughts. They actively fight against every attempt I make to influence them. They would suffer any punishment rather that allow me to change their minds.