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Originally Posted by Jp31
I think it's unfair to judge him. I'm not alarmed because I have no reason to feel threatened. You only hear parts of the day that were eventful. Everybody deserves a chances regardless of who they were, or have been.
Today was a good day. We cuddled up, watched a movie and ordered food. We were talking about future, our lives up to now and other things. He explained that whilst being at "home" he was associated, not involved, but associated, with people who had no choice but to create a business plan to support themselves and their families. The area he used to live in has been dubbed one of the poorest areas in the country, as well as the most violent. He was only associated with these people because they were friends Before the involvement in activities.
He moved here to escape his mother as she was a drug addict who was violent and abusive, he wanted to start a new life where he could find a job and support himself. However his ten year relationship ended violently, when his abusive partner held a knife to his throat and had to be removed by police.
So today his guy picked us both up, with his old lady and we were driven to an all you can eat breakfast where it was free for us all. After that happen we watched all the Army planes land which was really fun. After, we were driven to an animal rescue shelter to look at adoptions for pets. There was just one thing that I noticed, and if anyone can dissect this behaviour then I'd appreciate the understanding, but please, don't be judgemental.
We were told he couldn't see any animals as it disturbs them. Fine, the guy filed a form but there was complications. My date stood up and walked over, staired at the receptionist and told her he wasn't very happy with how her attitude was. So, she called the supervisor and he sat back down, crossed legged, arms folded watching the woman intently. Once the supervisor came, he stood up and stood behind his guy and sighed loudly. They were very hesitant to comment but eventually we left. The mood was dampened, but definitely not dangerous.
Apart from that, it's been a normal day.
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Answers he gives you regarding his past sound vague. He refers to his dark past, association, or "business" plan without actually telling you what it is. He might not be dishonest, but unless you left some info out of your posts, it seems clear he doesn't want you to know the specifics. I wonder why that may be?
One thing you could do is seek an objective third party that knows or has heard of your boyfriend, and hear what they have to say. Maybe local police? Just make sure you're not followed... im only half joking.
Anyways, most of the users here may be wrong, and he may not actually be of harm to you or anyone else. If nothing anyone says here sways you towards leaving him. At the very least, proceed with caution and acknowledge how truly unusual this situation is. Which you seem to be doing, to the best of your ability.