I don’t see anyone judging anyone. If you enjoy this life style then it’s fine but you asked our opinion.

Everyone’s opinion is that life style with guns, shooting, assaults and body guards is a dangerous life style. Your date isn’t famous or royalty or politician, he has no need for bodyguards unless he is involved in dangerous life style. Your guy as he said it himself associates with criminals hence he needs bodyguards. People who run homeless shelters and schedule volunteers do not need bodyguards.

You are very inexperienced and perhaps think that cuddling, watching movies and eating for free (every post mentions breakfast, why is it important) is enough to maintain a relationship. It’s not enough. You are free to continue this entanglement and he likely is glad he found someone young and inexperienced because no one else would be ok with it. He is waving red flags in your face.

Your safety is jeopardized