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Originally Posted by divine1966
I hear you! Personally when I made my post, I didn’t mean you rushed to get married, I meant that I don’t believe people must stick around just because they got married. I don’t buy “marriage is hard and one must endure”. Doesn’t need to be hard and there is no “must endure” in my books. It’s just how I look at it.
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Thanks, Divine. I knew what you meant.
I, personally, am willing to stick it out because I just got married. Why would I bail ONE MONTH into the marriage??? RIGHT??? It's waayyyyy too soon. I have to at least give it a chance and him a chance. It's far too soon to bail. I am definitely not of that mindset. But I agree with you, generally speaking! IF it's SO hard, then maybe it's not right overall. But now I understand how it's different once you're married vs. just dating. A far different level of commitment. Much easier to bail when you're just dating AND not living together.
I also realize in saying this that I may be contradicting the title of my post. Though I don't really think so. It more so conveys all the doubts I felt just before and after the wedding, thinking PERHAPS it was a mistake.