Lol. Well, I may have done both too soon, but it is what it is. I am not going to belabor over any missteps I may have made. I have to deal with what I've got.... and that is a marriage and a full-on relationship that does have some issues along with its joys. So I am looking forward.... things have been great lately, so I am very hopeful right now. I hope it remains this way!!!!