I'm sorry I don't think I can really be of help with this. But I noticed no one had yet replied to your post. So I thought I would. Here are links to some articles, from PC's archives, on the subject of ROCD:
Relationship OCD
Relationship OCD and the Doors of Uncertainty
When OCD Targets Your Relationship
May they be of benefit. 
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