Hi JP31 and welcome to PC!

There are so many details of the situation you described that need more clarification, that it’s hard to know how to make all of this out for me. But the general thought, just like all the prior posters wisely said, is you are not in a healthy and potentially dangerous situation and should end this ‘date’ and go home.

May I start by asking how old you are? Where did you meet this man? Online, I presume. Why did you travel to stay with this man that you really didn’t know anything about? Why are you referring to him as your ‘date’?

Maybe a look into you and your thinking and doing risky things is a good place to start talking about in this issue.